WMLC - Thoughts appreciated!

[peacetoday]

seriously I dont know if anything really works in MLC

The DB approach has always presented a more dont snoop approach
work on your own healing and gal ect
be the lighthouse

for me that approach helped me detach from my xh and it created a peaceful separation

at times I was distant and not ias nvolved when H came by the house and sometimes he sought me out
but he stayed his course
I tried a few strategies but none really worked

maybe read more about the one you are considering and get more facts-statistics
Ive heard of tough love--dont know anything about it

would it help you to know she is having an affair?

I did not snoop until the end -when I had to know, and I found out
It didnt change much once I knew

He choose her and his new life anyway-

A db coach once told me to do what felt like it brought us closer and at BD time it did help calm things by me backing away

The bottom line was the MLC usually will do what they want
there is no set technique to work but you can try different ones to see
we dont want to give them a ticket to prove they are right in leaving
but I totally get what your saying

Its more about us and using the time to grow, detach, love from a far, forgive and heal-