I’m ready for the convo. I’m guessing 90/10 she wants D vs R. But who knows. I love her, I really do. But I am completely detached. She could walk and it wouldn’t hurt.

That being said. Would DBing and 180ing and GALing like a crazy man make a difference in the next 3 months. Cause the convo has to happen then no matter what. I’m not renting another place with her unless she is committed

That’s why I asked about ILYs. What have I got to lose? If they blow up in my face then fine. Or is convo better


Me 32. W. 30
T 10 years M 8
S 8

Bd 5-31-19