I think I'm going to pass on going. It's quite likely that if I don't go she won't take him. I think it has more to do with her not knowing how to spend time with him and it's just easier for her if I'm there.
I think given the circumstances I will go for as much custody as I can. I'll also leave that open to changing if she starts showing responsibility and consistency as a parent. I don't think I mentioned this but after our last talk about custody she even agreed that we would stick to the status quo until she gets going on her counseling and sees they psychiatrist. He has been low on her priority list for the past 10 months. Why should I expect that to just change all of a sudden when she hasn't done any work on herself? I'm a little concerned she'll find some other new shiny thing a few months later that will get her interest more than her son.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
