She lost her job and is bored. I wouldn't go with her but that's just me. I would also go for full custody. If you don't and she drops him at babysitters you won't be able to do anything about it. My sister did this crap and that kid is messed up now from her neglect. You can always let her see your son more as long as she is responsible. He's 2 not 12 and yes it matters.
