When things progress so quickly is there a better chance it ends as quickly? First contact to her kicking me out was 60 days and she hadn't even seen him in person. 60 days after being out of the house, she lives with him when she don't have the kids, she's met his kids, went to his ex-wife wedding with him, and the list goes on and on. It's so crazy how fast it went from nothing to indicating he is her "soulmate" and all this happened for them to find each other.
I have seen a few articles that talked about when it progresses so quickly it is much more likely to end quickly.
Any thoughts and opinions about that?
Sandi you had asked me to feel in some blanks a while back, if you happen to see this I would love to hear some more insight from you on my situation.
Thanks again everyone for your words and insights.
it's been less than a year since your wife found out about your affair. do you have any idea on how long that takes to get over.
My uneducated guess is that she is moving quickly with the new guy because 1) you hurt her in a way you probably didn't realize it, 2) it sounds like you never really process the your affair as a couple and 3) it helps her move on from the pain she was in.
Some people get married after a few dates, some people never get married after years. I don't think there is any hard and fast rules. Heck my dad is still married to his affair partner after 30+ years.
