Many worries, I am sorry you feel that way. I typically try to avoid confrontation here. If someone gives advice that I don't agree with I typically just give my advice. I think the forum as a whole has done a good job of disagreeing without being disagreeable. Maybe a run through the forum guidelines might be useful.
Glad you were able to turn around your sitch and R! I am in the same position, though we did have a slight speed bump this past summer. Would agree that Ring is difficult? Maybe even more difficult than just giving up and getting D'd. Though I have no experience with latter.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018