Hey 44 how you doing buddy?

I’ll add that if she tries to draw out the discussion and wear you down just state your position and say ‘I can’t take it any further ‘ and/or ‘I’m firm with my position ‘

Good luck mate

Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24