Scout - I can see your point. My point, which I didn't share with her, is that I will experience his inequity too as I'm currently seeing him 5-6 days a week and that will likely change for the worse. So from my viewpoint I do understand b/c I know I'll be seeing him less than I do now.
LH - I don't want 50/50 because he's my son. I've done nothing to cause this and I've done everything I can to be a full-time parent while she has left us. I'm taking him to daycare and picking him up. I'm paying for all expenses. I'm taking him for haircuts, doctor appointments, playdates, etc...
She only asked for more time and has shown this sadness since she lost her job. Is she bored? Has more time to think about everything? I don't know but she hasn't been a good mom for nearly a year. Why would I want that for my son?
Also, she still has yet to see the psychiatrist and I really don't know how that plays into everything. She ran from her responsibilities and I'm supposed to trust that she has his best interest at heart? I don't know anymore. It's almost like your trusting someone you don't know with your child bc she isn't the same person anymore and I really don't know who she is.
What it comes down to for me is that I love my son and I can't imagine only seeing him half the time. I've been the responsible parent.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
