I want you to remember something very important about the WW. She has the unique talent of twisting things to make the H feel as if he is the one who should be trying to earn her trust. I've seen it countless times, and the guy doesn't even catch on to how she has reversed the truth. Sure, he may have been a sorry spouse, but he didn't cheat on her. The WW tries to magnify every mistake he ever made since they first met, and strongly imply that the downfall of their MR is responsible for her affair. Some will even say the H made her do it.
