I don’t think they’re playing a game I think that is their true feelings at the moment that they are done. What they don’t know is that the feelings can and will likely come back at some point and the fantasy that they have in their mind will likely never come true.
I understand where you’re at right now with not willing to live like you are anymore, I got there too. It just took longer then 4 months. Just remember you’re feelings fluctuate and today you can decide you’re not done.