My story 2

[MJ1980]

So I wanted your guys opinion on this. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about asking my wife to find a place of her own. She says one thing and does another. She is in a A with someone else and doesn’t want to stop it. She filed for divorce. I countered. I know it will be very hard on my kids. But our relationship is a mess right now. She doesn’t help around the house much. She is not very nice towards me most days. I’ve been working hard on my self. I some how managed to become ok with either outcome over this last weekend. I know she will threaten to take the kids with her. That’s her go to card. She can’t afford much though. So advice would be welcome.