In six years and well over 15,000 posts here, I have noticed....I've only seen one of two methods ever work with a wayward and/or cheating spouse: either Allen A's consistent, boundary-laying, affair-exposing, throw-everything-you-got-at-'em approach . . . or, Robx's/Gucci's "You know what, I agree, maybe this is best as I'm tired of your crap behavior anyway/time to move on" approach. Or perhaps some combination of the two.
I believe a mix of AllenA, Gucci, RobX, Puppy and Coach are the best. Puppy guided many down the right path.
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This morning. ....I don’t have any desire to continue digging...
Best thing is to not reveal what you know. Do not reveal how you know. Do not even reveal that you do know...YET....
Intel is powerful if you can handle it. I am a firm believer that an alpha male will do what it takes to understand what he is dealing with before taking action. Then he will do what is necessary to protect the relationship if it is important to him. He will gain respect in doing this.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
