0 I am done with the way things are. Good. Lead through the needed changes 1 have I given it enough time - I don't believe so. Give it more time. 2 I have backslid some in my 180s (I think mostly to my mind being constantly on cancer. No pun intended) so should I get those back on track first? - Absolutely. 3 we are best friends. Do I preserve that or no? - Not if she chooses to leave. 4 is it normal to feel sad about this at this stage. - [b][color:#CC33CC]Yes. Privately grieve the death of the old relationship. 5 is it normal to feel excited about being single? - Yes. Be happy. Be happy with just you. Be happy no matter how anyone else is. 6 I’m worried I haven’t done everything I could. - Lots of things you still need to do. It is like an onion with many layers. Keep pulling off layers.
7. Is it normal to have a small hope that walking away will cause her to think about things. But to also know that’s silly?-Yes. normal.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712