I wouldn't do a thing. I would pick myself up, dust myself off and continue living your life. Your wife isn't happy w/anything, especially herself. There is no pleasing someone in MLC. The best thing is to live your life to the fullest and keep the focus on your and your family.

If she doesn't want to go to MC, then I would consider booking in for IC for you and you only.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.