Not a vet but here are my answers

1 have I given it enough time - either she wants to work on it or not
2 I have backslid some in my 180s (I think mostly to my mind being constantly on cancer. No pun intended) so should I get those back on track first? can't hurt
3 we are best friends. Do I preserve that or no? not a fan unless you're together
4 is it normal to feel sad about this at this stage. yes
5 is it normal to feel excited about being single? depends
6 I’m worried I haven’t done everything I could. I wouldn't do anything until you are sure
Ps

7. Is it normal to have a small hope that walking away will cause her to think about things. But to also know that’s silly? I think most LBS's here have hope based on all kinds of "silly" things. Its normal.

Last edited by kas99; 10/15/19 04:46 PM.