So Sunday was relativey quiet. I took the kids to my parents we got home after my wife did from her orchestra concert. I was quiet with her. When she would talk to me I was polite and validated when I needed to spent time in a different room from her. Kids have been sick so that has been tough. She has stepped up some. Today I had work. When I got home we talked about some finance stuff for a few. She brought up that she was trying to set counseling up for this week. I said basically ok. I have been killing GAL this week. Been talking to friends, hitting the gym. Not really spending much time around her. She seems to look for reasons to text me. If it isnt important I respond when I have time.
Her last little fiasco on Friday pushed me into I’m done with this crap or letting her control my life with her awful decisions. I very much mourned my marriage this weekend. I remembered the good the bad. Had a good cry about it. Then I got up brushed the dirt off and decided I’m getting myself good and totally flipped a switch. I went from trying to GAL to just doing it. I haven’t focused on what she has been up. I’m becoming AMOAFWL and the best part is I’m doing it myself.
Last edited by MJ1980; 10/15/1903:09 AM.
M:39 W:36 D: 4 D: 2 BD:8/22/2019 Currently dealing with a WW
