Divorce because I betrayed her trust - THREAD 4

[Ready2Change]

R2C, can you elaborate what you mean when you write "bla, bla, bla ...?"
Blu

Sometimes we don't get time to substantiate the actual words, so this is just generic, and nothing to do with gender,....There's usually a key word though that he puts in amongst the bla bla's that guides the reader.

This.

Replace "Bla bla bla" with this ==>

She replied saying "ok, will let you know about the window. I will be moving to [brother's] house in the next few weeks but will be popping in to check in the house at weekends at to [run one of her businesses]. Haven't sorted a solution as to where to [run my two businesses] as of yet, so I'll still use the house for that until it sells."

I try to pull out the key phrase or word out of the interaction. Then I try to suggest the word or shortest phrase that should get the point across.


The goal is to get the emotions out of the conversation and then reduce confusion, clarify , come to agreements or understanding.