No more co dependency. Haven't been co dependant in months. Im moving out, she's carrying on with her life. I'm carrying on with mine. As far as the victim mentality. It comes and goes. The more I become independent. The more it will go. I got plans to do some major overhauls internally and externally. Its just carrying all these realizations that I learn here and elsewhere around until I get there. I don't want her to consider recon right now, I just want to get my life right and so does she. I'm really fine with whatever outcome at this point with no expectations. Its just learning and thinking about all these new things and applying them in your life. I guess the only thing right now that disappoints me is thst people who divorce trade don't think about long term outcomes, only short term relief. Its disempowering and heart breaking. But it is what it is. Gotta keep moving forward.
