Originally Posted by LH19
MJ,

You have a full blown WW on your hands and your try to use logic and reason with her which will not work. Do not bring up counseling and do not ask her about her whereabouts anymore. Set up a schedule for who is in charge of the kids each day. Be scarce when you have the kids and definitely when you do not have the kids. Do not reply to any texts that do not involve kids or finances.

Time to start planning your life for you and your kids moving forward.


Will do that was my thought process after last night. I already have this past week started making arrangements. I haven’t moved my paycheck yet since all the bills are set up for auto withdrawal from the joint account. But she is essentially out of control. Totally in the thick of the fog. She is in about month 3 of the affair with captain deadbeat. I was able to verify the time line of when it started right after the BD.

Also my lawyer sent her lawyer the counter to her filing last night. So she should get that this week. She will be upset since I’m seeking 50/50 for the kids. She wants primary.

Last edited by MJ1980; 10/12/19 12:38 PM.

M:39
W:36
D: 4
D: 2
BD:8/22/2019
Currently dealing with a WW