My story 2

[MJ1980]

So my wife decided to go for little meet up. She thought I was asleep putting the kids down. She snuck out. I didn’t her her. So after the kids were down I went to get stuff ready for my atv trip tomorrow. I needed to discuss logistics for tomorrow evening and Sunday since my wife has two concerts and work booth on Sunday. She is claiming she is at her friends. She straight lied to our daughter when she asked if she could sleep with her.

Me: Hey where did you go? I needed to talk to you about some stuff for tomorrow and Sunday?
H: Can we talk in the morning?
Me: Not really I'm Leaving early and you'll be home late.
H: Just text me
Me: No you can come talk to Me about our kids.
H: I can talk over text.
Me: If you can't talk to me in person about our kids I will figure things out on my own for them.
H: Call me then
me:I'm still your husband for the time being. You can come be a responsible parent and talk to me face to face about the kids or you can choose to do whatever it is your doing. Choice is yours.
H: I walked to Melissa's to hang out for a bit. It's been a long week. There is no reason to bring my parenting into this. I'm happy to call you now or wake up early to discuss things. You already know the schedule for the weekend.

I didn’t respond. She called me. Tried to chew me out about the schedule. I replied with how am I supposed to trust anything you tell me with all the lying. You have never given me anything concrete about the A being over. You asked me to go to counseling. Yet nothing has happened with that either. You lied to our daughter on why she could not sleep with you. Where does it stop. She was silent. I was like whatever at that point and said let’s go over the schedule and then I hung up.

Just so messed up trying to justify this garbage. I need to stay the course. Detach 180 GAL.