Hmmm... WW reached out yesterday to meet to talk today. I have not initiated any contact with her. (In case you have not been following, WW moved out ~3 weeks ago. We had a brief talk ~2 weeks ago.)

There's a lot of conflicting information on how NC / Radio Silence / Going Dark should work... and I don't see the specific in Sandi's rules or MWD's book. It mostly just says don't initiate as it is pursuing, but does not mention on whether to respond.

Some people say ignore the pointless "hey, how are you?" texts (which I do), but do politely respond if it's something "business" related that deserves a response.

Some people say ignore everything 30+ days then reach out / indefinitely until they clearly state they want to R? Not that I'm expecting her to R right now, but I doubt that will be communicated over text or e-mail?

We have some "business" stuff to discuss, but if she wants to talk about how she's feeling, do I continue listen / validate / ask questions, or don't even engage in the feeling conversations?

Last edited by LovingIt; 10/11/19 05:08 PM.