It's probably a small setback, unfortunately. I plan on addressing it at MC, as I'm sure she will bring it up. I am going to validate her feelings, ("I'm sorry you feel that way") and not defend my actions etc. Will be curious to see how the MC handles it.
And, you nailed the trauma DnJ. My W is adopted and both I and her birth parents believe this crisis has (at least in part) to do with her birth mother rejecting her when she tracked her down years ago.
