dont be around her in the first place to even have those conversations. If she is planning on being home then dont be there.

Your WW is literally acting like you are her best friend to have conversations about her AP with. You are not that person. You can say that to her. I told my exww that I was not her friend.

You can still tell her how you feel when something bothers you. As long as its not pursuit, mean or negative. Just facts.

WW: blah bla blah poor AP
You: I am not comfortable talking about AP

You need to set some boundaries for yourself. Go read the boundary thread. Just remember boundaries are for you.

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019