Thanks AS - I'll admit that I am no longer hopeful of this working out. I suppose I remain a tad open to it down the road but that's only because I still think the old version of her may come back.

She does seem to be spinning a bit now but it's so crazy that she can't see how terrible her behaviour has been for the past 10 months. She never once apologized or tried to explain her actions. She thinks she can just choose when to be a mom. It's also interesting that she only really expressed interest in seeing our son more when she got fired from her job 3 weeks ago. I guess she's bored now?

I really would like this settlement to be done with and to move forward.

We are going to meet with our lawyers and see if we can get this done without having to go do a mediator.


H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019