Have you tried coming home at lunchtime, but not for lunch, yet?
I fully agree with R2C about not talking about your needs (in the intimacy sphere). You fulfill hers, and focus on hers being your priority, and I can guarantee she'll be asking you what you need and want! Maybe give her a hint if you feel the timing's right by whispering it in her ear in conjunction with what you intend to do to her!
I've got no idea what her health issue is, but if it's just preventing you from, ahem, coupling in the traditional sense, then maybe a chance to explore other options in fulfilling her needs.
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
[quote=Steve85]
Rated G version: Me:"Want to fool around before or after dinner?" Smile/Wink
PG version (even better if you cook dinner)
Hope you're hungry darl. We're having XYZ for dinner - I'm devouring you for dessert... (insert wink emoji)
Good luck Steve!
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24