Thanks for the positive take ! Much appreciated . Today I was asked outright what I wanted . Went south pretty fast . Unfortunately H expressed he would rather live in limbo then come to terms with how he feels and make a new R or completely walk away. This came randomly after him asking random things “ temp checks “and hours after the convo he started that went south with my positive take on life and marriage . He threw some other nonsense in there I didn’t respond to . Maybe to get a bite ? Not even a nibble given .Then put out he wants to live in the moment and him thinking about making any decision tears him up that he’s content in 2 worlds . Total fog , cake eater whatever we wish to call it . Again I didn’t respond . Wasn’t really a question and I don’t know how to validate being in limbo and don’t really agree with it . So I said nothing .
