The suddeness really is crazy isn't it. Like yours, mine also seemed like a light switch was flicked in a matter of hours. I don't think there is an answer, though we search, don't we.
What's your XW's age? Was she going through menopause? Did she have childhood abuse, abandonment or neglect? The answers could be there. If it's not against your principles, go see a good psychic. They might have some answers.
It does bring tears to your eyes sometimes with what the kids say. My S said a few weeks ago he was wondering why I wear my family signet ring where my wedding ring was. I told him its not my wedding ring finger I wear my signet ring on. He asked where my wedding ring was then, and I told him I've got it kept away safe and sound. I shed a few tears after I got up and walked away from my son.
Don't let memories of the past eat you up and consume you Roo. Push them to the side and quash them immediately until you feel ready to deal with and process them as part of your healing journey.
You're a good dad mate! Keep it up!
Cheers, D
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
