Gerda Rises Up to Go On

[Yail]

Yeah...I was wordy but not very clear I have a lot going on in my world and I think I had a brain hiccup or two mid post!

I always thought if I said anything it would need to come out of the context of something my kids said or asked. My D does see him and is now being forced to see the OW so I did think maybe I should say something more, but I am not sure what purpose it really serves. Doesn't it just add to D10's burden?

I think this is the perfect summary, and I see your thought process clearly now. I would be having the same back-and-forth. The easiest solution is certainly answering questions your kids have in an open and honest way. But if they're not asking, that does become tricky. I'm not a parent, I can't speak to how to navigate.

I will think on it some more, and may pop back in if thoughts come together in a more coheasive way.