Got served papers yesterday. The night before she called me and told me she's close to losing her job, she was needing support from me, I have always supported her in her career. I told her that I didn't even know what she has going on at work, that she talks to someone else about that. She said she doesn't talk about her job stuff and definitely not her issues at work with him. Does she not talk about stuff like that because she's afraid that would make her look different than this perfect little picture she painted him?

So I talked a little, but not much. Said she really appreciated it.

Then I got served papers the next day!! That was yesterday.

Now today she text and ask how I am doing? I don't even know how to respond?! I'm dying, but I know that I can't say anything about that.

Me 34 Her 34
T:16 years
M:11
4 Daughters: 10,7,6,3
Her EA May 2019
Separated July 30th 2019
Her PA Started August 1st, 2019
Filed October 3rd, 2019