Just makes no sense, does it. None at all. I don't think I've ever seen a WAS ramrod a divorce through as quickly as yours Rooskers. It defied comprehension. It does remind me of my friend whose W did something similar, although she never filed for D. They had zero contact for two years after selling their house and business. Not a single email, call or text. Nothing. And now they are back together because the same woman that wanted out so bad also wanted back in really bad. Your XW is on some kind of journey that only she can make.