Get busy doing things that you like to do or need to do. Focus your energy on becoming happy without a significant other. Keep your thoughts focused on you and your behavior. Any time you catch yourself thinking of her, tell yourself "STOP". Refocus and go back to doing things for you.
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Should I tell my ww that I am going to take some time for myself and that I won't be responding?[quote]
Actions, not words. Let phone calls go to voice mail. Do not immediately respond to texts. Vague answers.
Her:"Hi, bla bla bla bla.." You :Crickets (IE don't respond) Her:"You OK? Bla bla bla" You: Crickets Her:"I am worried about you..bla bla bla" You:Crickets. You an hour later :"Sorry, was busy. I am OK" Her"Bla bla bla" You crickets. Her"Bla bla bla" You crickets. Her"Bla bla bla" You crickets.
You can post the convos her for feedback if needed...
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I just don't know how to go about it when we still talk all day, hang out
Make other plans. Stop hanging out with her. Do not tell her what you are doing or planning.
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Do I just start to pull away and become less available to leave her wondering?
YES.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
