Confused and Lost

[KristinG]

I definitely want to end the cake eating! She has even admitted to being able to have her cake and eat it. I have been following Sandi's Rules and really backing away for the past month. The more I lay back and do my own thing, the more she tries to connect. I am definitely worried about being friendzoned, but I also know that the R between her and the OW can't and won't last forever. Is it bad that I'm feeling a bit stubborn in not wanting to move on and in trying to be patient to let this thing run its course? Also - do I assume they are still a couple? They talk all day everyday and hang out about once or twice a week. WW says she loves her but that nothing physical is happening - I'm sure you all will tell me not to believe a word of it! HAHA!