Well it's been about 10 months now. I moved back home to Hawaii to be with my family and the ex is still in Maine. Found out recently that he had been seeing someone since around last November, right around when all of this started so, I guess I now know the reason he didn't want to work it out. I also found out that as soon as I moved out from the house, he moved her right in.
Its been intermittently difficult moving on, some days are better than others. We haven't exchanged more than 3-4 texts in the past 6 months, and only about the divorce. I met someone new and its been going well. I still get feelings like i miss him every now and then but its hard to tell if i miss the memories or him.
Sorry Lost, but this is why we tell LBSs that 99.999999% there is someone else. It is a sad reality. EVen in the .0000001% it is a fantasy of someone else.
Hang in there, let the emotions come and deal with them. Time is the great healer.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
