Originally Posted by Steve85
I need to be more open about needs

Check out Fine Art of Erotic Talk p187. You might be able to tweek it to be less needy sounding.

I really don't talk about my needs with my lady. I build up the tension, tease, give her a choice"

Rated G version:
Me:"Want to fool around before or after dinner?" Smile/Wink

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712