Its best to stay neutral with her family--as you did they will always pick her side and she will usually lie anyway, so no sense in saying much
they will however figure the MLCer out in time and see their crazy choices, and sometimes come back to you for more answers
Good choice to Not snoop
They usually have an affair partner and nothing we say can affect them
Best to let things be and just watch as you take good care of you and support your kids make sure they are safe with her as the MLCer will become a terrible parent Er therefore have to pick up the slack so the kids know we are a strong rock for them as they will be confused and hurt as well-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
