It sounds like your GAL isn't GAL at all but more to get her to Notice your GAL.
That's not GAL, you keeping talking bout her reactions to GAL. My understanding was that is not the point of having an activity. It's more to get out there and see what else life has to offer.
Putting on cologne....come on man. It's pretty transparent you were trying to get a reaction.
Michele writes in DR that putting on cologne, taking cares of your body and appearances are all good things. I don't see why it's wrong.
GAL is twofold IMO. It's for you and for your WAS to see that you are going to be fine. This is divorce busting after all.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.