I guess I'm not particularly surprised that W and her mother are doing this. W's mother is a total narcissist and I suspect W has has many traits as well. What's funny is that right before W left she said she would not keep D12 from me and that D12 sees me as her father (I've raised her since she was 3).
I will keep reaching out to D12 to let her know I'm still here and love her but I will not expect any responses going forward. This is insane to me.
On the detachment front, W is actually helping me detach by showing how vindictive she can be. I don't want anything to do with her anymore.