I don't care if you have MWD herself you can not improve a m when your w is in an affair.
And MWD would say that herself!
MJ, we have a saying around here. "Prepare for the worst, and hope for the best." Sometimes the stuff has got to get real for the WW before they snap out of it. You should be DBing, but you should also be preparing for the inevitable. No one has ever stopped a D by not being prepared. Almost all of the turnarounds occur AFTER the LBS accepts the D, embraces it, and is ready to move on from it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018