Everything that works is counter intuitive.

Read this thread and all the threads linked in the first post:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2846984#Post2846984

Take special care in reading Quotes found on Divorcebusting (3)

Read this post:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2061094#Post2061094



Focus on your personal growth. Learn new ways of interacting. Become an Alpha Male. Keep making positive changes to your behavior and your beliefs system.


Start a mantra list, these are two good ones to start with:
"I do not share my woman with other men"
"I do not want to be with a woman who does not want to be with me"


Seduction is key during this phase. Your wife needs to FEEL like she lost you. You know she wants you back when she is begging "What will it take??" Then you pull back and make her purse you.


You have a big onion to peel, one layer at a time.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712