When we are in NC... do we respond to text or attempts to meet up to talk, or do we completely ignore if it's not business matter that warrants a response?
How would that be "no contact" if you text each other and meet up to talk?
I guess I was confused based on the feedback provided by the vets on here... whether it's absolutely do not contact/reply vs do not initiate contact but reply with short answers and validate. Or is the ladder only used for live-in sitch, and not separated?
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Originally Posted by LovingIt
What are vet's thoughts on casual dates meeting new people?
You've been with your W for 16 years and that relationship is not over. Do you think you're ready to date? Would it be contrary to your vows? What would be the purpose? What are your girls for your marriage and future relationship(s)? These are questions to ask yourself and think about.
I don't think I'm even remotely ready to have a serious relationship. Am I ready to meet some new people for a casual coffee or drink, maybe? It would help me realize there are other people out there, and help me move on?
I'm pretty sure my WW is not holding up her end of the vows. Not that I want to lower my standards to hers.
The hardest thing would be having to explain my sitch to people, or lying by omission. Neither sounds like something I'm willing to do.
