So people just live like this... separated in limbo, and do NC... and this goes on for weeks / months / years? WTF.
You can always bail out at any time. Do you want to be divorced?
I think people live in limbo until one or both of them figure out what they want to do.
Originally Posted by LovingIt
When we are in NC... do we respond to text or attempts to meet up to talk, or do we completely ignore if it's not business matter that warrants a response?
How would that be "no contact" if you text each other and meet up to talk?
Originally Posted by LovingIt
What are vet's thoughts on casual dates meeting new people?
You've been with your W for 16 years and that relationship is not over. Do you think you're ready to date? Would it be contrary to your vows? What would be the purpose? What are your girls for your marriage and future relationship(s)? These are questions to ask yourself and think about.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
