I don’t want to divorce. But she keeps telling me I’m being passive aggressive towards Her. She did so with the whole retainer thing. I made it clear In Our previous conversation that I wanted 50/50. But something tells me that she will try and twist it around into me attacking her. Same with the house.
She absolutely will MJ. You standing up for your rights while also giving her time and space DOES look passive/aggressive to her. Right? I mean you can see why she would say that. BUT, that doesn't mean it's wrong. It IS the right thing for you to do. Give her time and space, but if your back is against the wall and she's trying to ram a big fat "divorce sandwich" down your throat then make it clear to her that you ARE going to stand up for your FULL rights in the matter.
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I just feel like since she filed so quickly like a clock is ticking. I know this is marathon and time is big thing, that this won’t be over night. I’m trying to detach and let go but it’s hard. I feel like with the filing that the clock is ticking.
Divorce isn't the end, at least not spiritually. BD was the spiritual end of the M. Divorce is just a paperwork formality. Neither BD or D means you want have an R together in the future, that opportunity may very well present itself some day.
