Foxpop,

It could be a control issue

I think Its just the mindset of the mLCer, in my opinion

No or lack of consideration for the LBS or the children

not wanting to commit even to a weekend that might take away his need for fun

no responsibilities like a teen

defiant -rebellious- unaware of others attitude

He may still come through but at least you have a plan B
and I would not pressure him too much

I had to learn to take full responsibility for my kids when MLC hit

I was lucky to find this woman from my gym-a grandma type of babysitter, who was great for us and usually she loved to babysit on the weekends


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow