I don’t want to divorce. But she keeps telling me I’m being passive aggressive towards Her. She did so with the whole retainer thing. I made it clear In Our previous conversation that I wanted 50/50. But something tells me that she will try and twist it around into me attacking her.
She can say anything, regardless of what you do. I think I see your concern, though. You don't want to seem to say one thing while doing another--e.g., to say "I accept your apology for breaking my window" and then file a police report? You don't actually want to be passive-aggressive, maybe?! Since you already declared your intentions once, and she heard you (based on how enraged she became), would sending her an FYI the day you take court action be enough for your conscience, or do you need to re-hash this?
