You all are right, there is no drama. The only issues I have had to work through where internally with myself.
Her XH was fine. She introduced me to him at her son's birthday party. We shook hands, he asked me about my girls, I told him it was nice to meet him, and that was it. When the girls and I left I shook his hand again and that was it. No drama and I didn't get into conversations with him.
My impressions.........he is a true Texan, a country boy, just as tall as me with a gut . Good looking though, like I could tell 15 years ago when he was in shape he would have been a really good looking guy. You could tell though he was arrogant, pompous, and had a high opinion of himself. Confident but according to the Dr. he had no follow through and only spoke a good game. My dad was at the birthday party as well and spoke to him for quite some time. He commented to me afterwards that he could tell why they didn't work out. After the party, several days later, he texted the Dr. and told her that I seemed like a nice guy.
I am very laid back and chill so dudes like that don't bother me. No drama though, he asked about my girls and that was it.