Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes and input.
I don’t want H to know as he will just pass the responsibility on but I do have my parents on standby. He seems to just think that if he can’t be bothered they will just step in. What a surprise. I did also question if this could be about control. He can literally do as he pleases when he wants but knows that I can’t as my family aren’t local and neither are his. Without his help I struggle to go out in the evening so most of my socialising happens in the day when D is at school and i’m not working. That’s actually not to much of an issue for me as I only work 3 days and see my friends plenty as they are about in the day to. So despite what he probably thinks or hopes I’m actually quite happy with my life. Unlike him .
