Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
What new hobbies have you found now that you aren't spending as much time with you W? I regret not taking advantage of my separation more than I did and getting out more.


I don't know if they're new per se, but definitely getting back to the old, more fit me - lots of soccer, flag football, and softball with friends. Gym on top of that. I've never felt or looked better from a purely physical perspective.

I am definitely having a hard time expanding my social circle given that I've generally had the same friend group for fifteen years and became so used to having a partner right there to do things with. That's the hardest ask of the two.

Thank you both for the input - I'm just having such a hard time right now trying to keep my head up and be optimistic. It really makes me feel sheepish more than anything else; I used to complain about the various things in my life that weren't perfect, but I want nothing more right now than to go back in time five years.


Me: 37, WAW: 32
T: 7.5, M: 2.25
NYC
BD: 5/19/19, S: 6/21/19