I know it's been a bit but I don't have much to update and life is just clicking by. I have not been on the board too much and I am starting feel the desire to post become less and less. I guess in many ways I feel myself truly starting to move on.

My girls are doing great. I am in the middle of soccer season for my oldest and my youngest is getting ready to start basketball. The school year is also just flying by! Still hitting the gym and doing my thing. My parents have been in town for several weeks it has been nice to have them at the house. The Dr. and I are still together, we talk every day, see each other about 3 times per week. I met her mom, sister and XH for the first time. No issues and our R is just very boring. She met my parents and we are gradually spending more time together with the kids as well. Nothing over the top but just dinners, get togethers, etc. and they all seem to get along. No sleepovers yet but the kids are starting to ask.

All for now.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018