Just wanted to do some venting, because it's much better to do it here than elsewhere.

As I've posted before, WAW has just taken a new job. It's a great spot for her, and I'm glad to see her back in the working world. She had a solid career going before, but decided she wanted to give being an artist full-time a shot about two years ago, which we were able to do due to some great advancements in my career. It didn't work out - and caused a lot of stress between us - and now she's back to it.

We used to have bi-weekly MC sessions, which I've said to her and on here were important to me as a vehicle for us to keep working through problems, communicating, and moving forward. She's put a stop to it, using her new job as the reasoning, saying that she cannot find time with her new schedule to meet during the week. Meanwhile, I'm a C-level exec with a 80-person org, but I digress..

Anyway, since I'm terrible at detaching, this has got me in a bad mental spot. I don't think she's trying very hard, and I really have no evidence to prove otherwise. This just feels like the status quo for her. I don't know what she needs to figure out, or anything.

Not going to whine about it to her though. I've said my peace once: this is important to me. She is choosing to not take action to show me that it is important to her. It's frustrating and it hurts.


Me: 37, WAW: 32
T: 7.5, M: 2.25
NYC
BD: 5/19/19, S: 6/21/19