Well she goes out more then I do. I end up watching the kids a bunch lately. I do want to talk to her about going out at least once a week moving forward. I’m not abandoning responsibilities with the kids. Like Saturday I said I had to run some errands. I didn’t tell her what they where though. That was bothering her a ton. Yesterday I had to run out and pick up some stuff for my car and I took my older daughter with me. Unfortunately we had a sad conversation in the car. She was nearly in tears. She was asking when we were going to go to Disney world. Before my wife started the A we talked about taking the kids to disney this winter for a few days. But that’s all up in the air now. I just told her that mom and dad are trying to figure some stuff out right now.

One of the hardest parts of all this is how she has acted towards the kids. I’ve been trying to be with kids and support them and be the pillar of consistency for them since the W hasn’t been lately.


M:39
W:36
D: 4
D: 2
BD:8/22/2019
Currently dealing with a WW